WATCH: PSA from NOH8 Campaign To Stop Anti-Gay Bullying

Google Staffers: It Gets Better

Here's a(nother) connection between Google and LGBT Rights. Staffers at Google have posted their own video contribution to the It Gets Better project. A nice thing to view on Spirit Day 2010!

Through My Eyes (Documentary)

 

I am not a christian. I am not gay. But what I am, is glad that this Documentary exists. This seems as though it could be a small beacon of hope to someone who IS christian and IS having homosexual feelings. 

My high school teacher once told me "It's hard to believe in something that doesn't believe in you." I cannot imagine what it must be like to feel as though you are are being rejected by the thing you believe in the most. Thinking about this makes me wonder how many people have injured or killed themselves because they believed that they were having "unholy" thoughts? How many people have felt alienated by the thing that claims to love all? 

The website claims to discuss "one of the most controversial topics today with compassion and sensitivity, shining new light on the debate for people on both sides." It certainly seems that way from the trailer, although we all know what the magic of editing can do. I suppose that the only way to be certain is to watch.

Sassy Gay Friend: Sassy or Sissy?

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After watching the first part of The Celluloid Closet today in class, I thought of these videos. Through these, it is clear that homosexuality's most popular function is comedy. This depicts the stereotypical gay man who acts like a "sissy" (or Sassy, as claimed by the title). It's obvious that the creators of these videos are exaggerating for comic effect, but is it simply entertainment, or can this be detrimental to the gay community?

An Example Of Willful Blindness or Defiant Ignorance?

The student newspaper The Daily Targum at Rutgers has published an editorial which claims that the media is exploiting the death of gay teen Tyler Clementi.

Here is the editorial in its entirety.

The death of University student Tyler Clementi might have been properly mourned if it were not for the massive rallies and aggressive news coverage that altered the nature of the situation. The truth is that an 18-year-old boy killed himself - he was a student just like the rest of us, someone just trying to receive an education. Yet people's relentless agendas took his death and turned it into a cause based on false pretenses.

A crowd of more than 20 people ended up lying outside the entrance of the Rutgers Student Center on the College Avenue campus the first night of the news breaking. The chants were, "We're here. We're queer. We want safety in our homes." The mistake was that Clementi's death should not have been turned into a lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender protest for gay rights and safe spaces at the University. Robert O'Brien, Department of Anthropology assistant instructor, led the rally as he chanted, "Not safe in dorms, not safe at Rutgers." Essentially, an angry mob fending for their rights turned the death of a young boy into a cause for "safe spaces" for gays across the University - all the while, these spaces already existed. We have groups across campus that deal with students' psychological difficulties - 17 Seconds is one that deals with suicides - as well as groups that address their sexual orientation. We have these spaces, and the University community is diverse enough to provide students with whatever it is they need.

The focal point of Clementi's tragic death should have been a boy's inability to deal with the hardships of life. And yet the news and certain organizations picked this up and carried it into the ranks of general causes for major social groups - for their profit. Did Tyler really feel unsafe after all? Do we know the reason behind his suicide? Do we know if he, himself, would take part in the movement behind his death - the push for safe spaces?

It is disappointing that everyone from news to celebrities picked up the story. Actress Brittany Snow and actor Neil Patrick-Harris are just two of the many celebrities belittling Clementi's death - forcing his remembrance into a cause rather than a proper mourning.

We did not know Tyler. It was barely three weeks into his first year at the University, and most of his neighbors in his residence hall barely knew him. Turning his death into a push for gay rights is a fallacy. Homosexuality is not the only reason for which people kill themselves. In this case, it might have pushed Clementi over the edge, but the fact that he was gay should by no means turn his death into a march for safe spaces. These groups want to be heard. They want the attention. They want their agendas to shine in the limelight.

Instead, we should address that the signs of a suicidal 18-year-old kid were unseen and went unnoticed, not "We want safety in our homes." We have the safety, or as much of it as we together as a University community can in today's world. What we need is to notice those of us who need help and help them. Entertainers stay away. O'Brien leave the issue alone. Let us - family, friends and the University together - mourn for Clementi, and just for him, rather than using him as a martyr for a cause that has yet to be proven.

To me, this appears to be an example of what USC Politics Professor Ange-Marie Hancock called "willful blindness" and "defiant ignorance." Willful blindness is the deliberate action by one group to not acknowledge or care about the oppression faced by another group. Defiant ignorance is the unwillingness of one group to be informed or educated about the oppression faced by another group.

Are the editors at the Targum being disingenuous (a manifestation of willful blindness) when they discount the known facts that occurred before Clementi's body was found? There are electronic records of Clementi's last statements before he jumped off that bridge, since he used the web and social media to express his thoughts, and they refer to his roommate and what had happened.

Or are they just exhibiting cluelessness (a manifestation of defiant ignorance) about what the life of a closeted 18-year-old kid in his first three weeks of college at a huge state school are like?

I think its both. Either way, the editors are the ones that are abusing Clementi's memory, in my opinion.

Blaming The Victim For Gay Teen Suicide

Rob Tsinai over at Box Turtle Bulletin has created the above graphic to explain how heterosexual supremacists respond to reports of gay teen suicide.

Dan Savage's It Gets Better Video Project To End Gay Suicide

Openly gay activist and sex-advice columnist Dan Savage has been encouraging LGBT people who have had bad experiences in high school to post videos to YouTube.com called the "It Gets Better" project. The first one, made by Dan and his husband Terry is below.

The idea is stop gay teen suicides by letting them know if they can just make it through high school, life gets better.

Roommates, Web Cams, Homophobia, Twitter and Another Gay Suicide

The story of an 18-year-old Rutgers University college student named Tyler Clementi who is missing and presumed dead after his roommate streamed a sexual encounter Clementi had with another man live on the Internet is related to all the things we are talking about in this class: gay identity, technological devices and Web 2.0.

The New York Times reports today:

It started with a Twitter message on Sept. 19: “Roommate asked for the room till midnight. I went into molly’s room and turned on my webcam. I saw him making out with a dude. Yay.”

That night, the authorities say, the Rutgers University student who sent the message used a camera in his dormitory room to stream the roommate’s intimate encounter live on the Internet.

And three days later, the roommate who had been surreptitiously broadcast — Tyler Clementi, an 18-year-old freshman and an accomplished violinist — jumped from the George Washington Bridge into the Hudson River in an apparent suicide.

The Sept. 22 death, details of which the authorities disclosed on Wednesday, was the latest by a young American that followed the online posting of hurtful material. The news came on the same day that Rutgers kicked off a two-year, campuswide project to teach the importance of civility, with special attention to the use and abuse of new technology.

Read the whole article and other stories about Tyler Clementi online, then feel free to provide your thoughts about the issues this news brings up in the comments.